Why not “just take meds?”
To some people, psychiatric medication seems like the simplest way to help alleviate negative feelings. Why bother with “talk therapy” when one can allegedly just take a pill and feel better? Undoubtedly, some medications have been shown to reliably help many people with mental health problems including psychosis, mania and severe depression. However, whereas medications act only to reduce momentary symptoms, psychotherapy aims to help people improve across myriad aspects of life.
Why do I do what I do?
I believe we work most mindfully and meaningfully when we have come to an understanding of why we do what we do throughout our workdays. Here are my reflections on why I do what I do throughout mine. I anticipate I will add more content to this entry over time.
On doing things we don’t want to do when doing them would be good for us
Doing what could be good for us to do when we feel unmotivated or uninterested is one of the most vexing tasks we often face in psychotherapy. Although there is no “silver bullet” for quickly and effortlessly overcoming psychological inertia, a number of tips might help some of us start doing things even when wanting to do them is not happening for us.
What to do about bad feelings about bad feelings?
Sometimes we have bad feelings, and sometimes we have bad feeling about our bad feelings. These “secondary” emotions often lead to unnecessary additional suffering during unfortunate or troubling situations.
Why should we avoid avoidance?
Spoiler alert: because it almost never works and often makes things worse.
On Mega Man and making mistakes
How might a popular video game reinforce a proactive approach to handling mistakes?
Maximizing sleep quality with good sleep hygiene practices
Difficulties falling and staying asleep often go along with depression, anxiety and burnout. Here are some relatively simple strategies to help us set the stage for better sleep from night to night.
What “gets done” in psychotherapy?
Let’s talk about what psychotherapy usually tries to do for people.
What is and is not psychotherapy?
For people who have never been in psychotherapy, it can seem mysterious. Here are some ground rules for what a person can expect in quality psychotherapy.
What does psychotherapy look like?
Psychotherapy can take many forms. The best psychotherapy is one that is research-supported and tailored to the person’s wants and needs.
Why choose psychotherapy?
There are as many reasons to consider psychotherapy as there are challenges in life.